Wednesday, January 2, 2013
You Shouldn't Play With Fire...
When I was little my mom would warn me, "dont get to close to that stove or you'll burn yourself", and guess what, when I didnt listen, I got burned.
As we get older, most of us tend to be smarter than we were as kids and not get so close to the hot ass stove. Others, well, they just don't learn as easily. For example...Rihanna.
This chick got the shit beat out of her by her hip hop boyfriend nearly 3 years ago and just last week they were spotted holding hands, being all lovey dovey again.
What. The. Fuck.
I get that we all make mistakes. I make them all the time, like running a red light this morning but these mistakes don't usually include using your girlfriends face as a damn punching bag.
Domestic violence is no laughing matter; it's serious fucking business. But when you have a victim that keeps going back to the same person that abused her, isn't she just asking to get burned?
It's sad that not even the image of your battered face being plastered all over the interweb is enough of a reminder for you to stay the fuck away from that mofo. Could it be stockholm syndrome? Maybe. It's just too bad that some people aren't strong enough to stay away from something that can hurt you so badly.
I think what pisses me off most is the fact that there are young girls out there looking up to this woman and she's basically telling them it's OK for a dude to kick your ass as long as he goes to a few counseling sessions, says he's 'sorry', and gets a busted ass tattoo of your beat up face on the side of his neck.
Hopefully he won't hurt her again but I'm just saying it now, if (when) he does, I'm sure as hell not gonna be surprised. After all, you're the only that can help put a stop to the cuts & bruises.